Lying and Manipulating Filipinos

by Ben
(Kentucky USA)

I am married to a Filipina, and I know personally that some of them are very clever and skilled liars.

Her whole family manipulated me and convinced me that they were people I could trust. Wrong! Eventually their true identity came to light.

They lied and deceived me for eight years before my eyes were opened. Her parents are old, but that doesn’t stop her mother from lying and demanding money. Her father is no different, except my wife is terrified of him. If he yells jump, she asks him “how high.” Her siblings are too lazy to work and they don’t work.
One of her sisters has given birth to three more kids and expects my wife to support all of them.

On one occasion they stole three thousand dollars from my wife and partied it all away. The first time they saw me, they saw not a human being, but an ATM.

I still don’t really know how many members there are in my wife’s family, because I can’t get the truth out of none of them, including my wife. But I do know they intended for her to send every dollar she works and earns to them.

I have managed to get the flow of money that was being sent to them slowed down some. Now her family says I’m the Devil.

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Jul 17, 2019
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Love Me or Love My Money?
by: Dylan

met a girl who is quite in need of a fix. all was well until caught her in a local escort page selling herself for money. was with her for 6 months and always has "some kind" of problem. she said she has anxiety and felt uncomfortable around crowds or people. but f*****g other guys is okay? no anxiety?

even has the nerve to ask money because father not well and not working, mother is sick and has to "go" to hospital every day. has kids with previous f**k buddies. she said she used to work with MNCs and Big5s including BPOs. all the time asking for a breakup because of "anxiety" or "depression" or "episodes" which are all BS.

lucky? i don’t think so. fell for her and every penny of it. damn wasted my monies and time traveling for fake love! never trusting filipinos anymore! such a crappy country!

p/s: never do business with filipinos. such swindlers and cons. i had that experience, plus the lying filipino girl too. so in short, don’t trust filipinos in anything. they will cut you to the quick by any chance!

Jun 26, 2019
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Be smart
by: Anonymous

They will lie juat about everything including age,status,they tell you they're single but infact they're married or separated with 5 kids,they don't see lying is anything wrong. Don't waste your money and time on anyone of them. Be samrt!!!

Jun 17, 2019
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Emotional explosions
by: Anonymous

Honest or not, if you plan to settle down with a Filipino woman, you better buckle up because you will assist to emotional explosions for banal reasons once in a while. Once in a while she will scream historically and can possibly become violent behind closed doors. There's a good reason for this.

In the Filipino culture people are extremely modest. More than fondamentalist muslims in a certain way. Holding hands and kissing in public is very taboo. Filipino "adults" never kiss no caress nor hug their kids. The only physical sing of affection they do is the 'mano po' which is a sing of submission. If a child tries to kiss his/her mother, she will push him away to show him whose the boss and to never do this again. They early learn to keep their emotions for themselves.
They interiorize their emotions and explode. They don't have much competition for others. Just look at the rate of popularity of their dictator who talks like trash and encourages rape and violence. It's all related to they way they have been educated.

Jun 17, 2019
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The Filipino; His Customs and Character
by: Anonymous

This reminds me of a book I have recently read. It's called 'The Filipino; His Customs and Character'. We can download it here for free:
https://www.jstor.org/stable/983599?seq=1#metadata_info_tab_contents

This book has been written by an American ethnologist in 1915. We quickly realize that not much changed about Filipinos since 100 years. The scientist describes the common Filipino that we know as 'the domesticated Filipino' and 'the so called civilized Filipino'. It sounds very rude but let's be honest, when we observe the Filipino in his native element, it's hard to find positive things to say about him. That's why when we want to be nice we say that Filipinos are good signers and smile all the time. It's also fair to say that the Filipino is happy in mediocrity and in chaos. I often saw them sleeping on in filth and on the most uncomfortable surfaces and positions. He doesn't try much to help himself and will wait for someone to do it for him. He takes everything the foreign offers him and perceive his dishonesty as a victory.

Lying and tweaking the truth is probably the Core of the Filipino culture. It's one of the first thing the author wrote about the modern Filipino. No need to be a genius to notice this. The Filipino is so used to lie that he does it naturally and fluidly without thinking. He knows he can say whatever he wants without the fear of being confronted. He knows that his society is too coward and immature to act and talk like adults. Catch a Filipino with his hand in your pocket and listen him telling you that it's YOUR fault.

The Filipino is also extremely lazy. Cleaning his mess in a public area is simply unthinkable for him. If he sees you doing it he will laugh. I asked to many Filipinos what do they like to do the most in life. The most common answers were: sleeping, gambling, drinking, fucking and going to church.

The Filipino doesn't trust his neighbor. He's always in competition with him. He perceived him as a delinquent. He puts a 6 feet high gate with barbwire around his house to protect it from his countrymen. He doesn't like his neighbor mostly because he knows he's just like him. He has voted and supports an insecure and matcho man who called himself a dictator who promised to improving his country by killing people and spitting on human rights. The Filipino says he's proud to be Filipino with no objectivity.

May 28, 2019
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i agree
by: kevinm

filipinas are money hungry and have no qualms about lying, after 3 years of dating and sending money she just vanished, i guess i am lucky or i would still be paying,,

May 26, 2019
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Never trust them.
by: Anonymous

This happened to a friend. He married this Filipina girl and on the morning of their two year wedding anniversary, she told him 'im leaving you. In fact, I've been talking to 12 other guys since we've been married, and I found a 60 year old man who is rich from being in shipping. I leave you.'

That day she deliberately fell down the stairs of the house and went to work where she outright lied to her boss saying my friend assualted her. My friend gets arrested, and within weeks his house and his newish BMW was given to her.

She's now using a new man...

May 22, 2019
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Same
by: Anonymous

Married to a Filipino for 20 years. My husband does not extort money from me. However, we went broke with him sending money to the PI and he lies, lies, lies. He lies when the truth is a better story! Been a struggle and almost divorced several times. He is good to me otherwise, but I don’t trust him and doubt I ever will.

May 18, 2019
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Gotta be careful since they are patient at extorting money
by: Getting Scammed After 4 Years

My Filipina GF is here in the USA and her whole family is here. Her brother doesn't work. Her male cousin doesn't work. Her sister is married to an older white man that has money and property. He gets manipulated so bad that the entire clan feeds off of him without him even realizing it.

My GF was good for about 4 years, but the last 7 months she's asked me for a loan, monthly allowance, and I figured it would be okay after dating for 4 years. She promised to pay it back monthly. I gave her the loan knowing I wouldn't get a penny back.

I then lost my job and there was no compassion. No money, no honey. She's even got a bad attitude. So, I left.

The good thing is that the money I lost did not cripple me since I made good money in my previous job. Also, I'll be able to find a job within a few months and my savings allow me to stay without work for two years.

Anyways, just know that they can be patient for years while setting you up little by little, then strike for loans and allowances.

Just be careful. It happens even after many years.

Apr 22, 2019
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Selfish scammer
by: Anonymous

My ex filipina said if I can't support her then not to bother her, what kind of lady would say that, not a nice one that's for sure, I got out quick, wasted a long time on her.

Mar 01, 2019
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How to say I love you in Pinoy?
by: Romantic Idiot

The answer is: Western Union :))))))

Jan 27, 2019
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Scammers
by: Anonymous

Very simple. If you are white and have money stay away from the Philippines. Pathetic liars. I have never been scammed because I do not myself be scammed.

Jan 26, 2019
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starsky
by: Anonymous

Your better of alone than with bad company or a leaching lier. Some guys really desparate marry filipinas , notice most guys don,t.

Jan 10, 2019
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filipinas not good
by: Anonymous

this is all true on here. i fell into the trap. im currently getting myself out. look for women else where, not worth it in phil........

Jan 01, 2019
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scamming Filipino lady
by: Anonymous

I retired from the U.S. Army went to the Philippines to meet a lady i met on line, she had 2 Filipino kids from 2 different Filipino men, both left her, so i thought she was a good lady, i accepted her and her kids, got married, build a house, I am disabled veteran, so one day I told her i need to go to the USA for knee surgery, i was gone for 2 months, upon returning someone told me she had a filipino man sleeping in my house, i confronted her, she denied, i gave her 20,000pesos for her daughters college later i found out the college was only 1500p tuition, been scammed by her multiple times, every time someone in the family gets sick, i have to pay, i send her brother to welding school, never received a thank you, her mom borrowed $500USD never got paid back, paid her sons private school, gave her $700USD, she kept the money, so i had to go to the school and spend another $700USD, every time we go out she stares at other men, i decided i had enough, i packed up and left, i have no kids from her, her family treated me like a walking ATM, I was spending on a monthly basis of $3000 USD, my bank account was empty, i was broke, i wised up, left her and now i have plenty of money because i save and budget, never will i take another filipino lady, they all lie, scams, cheat, foreigners beware.

Dec 22, 2018
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Same experience
by: Anonymous

Yes I have gone through the same things all they want is more and more money they try every trick in the book
I’m hoping western union will block us from sending money

Dec 12, 2018
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Yes be thou ware
by: Alpstaurus

I am currently involved in a relationship with a certain Filipina but all I encounter is stress and am constantly pressured for money or things. Plus she is very cold and unloving to me. I agree, its a culture thing to beg and use foreigners. I am facing this same exact thing.

Dec 08, 2018
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The land of one thousand lies
by: Anonymous

People I guess get caught up with these friendly smiles, coupled with the sunshiny islands. Filipinos are playful and fun, party animals, but that doesn't mean they are sincere nor honest for the slightest.

Expect total truth denial all of the time - it's always someone else, the government, you, or all of that same time. Emotional lies, they will even cry lying to your face, touching your heart (mother is sick, need money, poor us and what not).

It is a double culture, with a well polished layer of European / American heritage, but the inner motor of these people is the core of an Asian lying beating heart.

Be nice to them, they will see you as weak.

Be generous, they will always want more and start being demeaning, angry, and even mocking however good you are. The more you can give, the more they hate you, longing to hurt you, because in truth they want to be you, or even kill you to take all of your posessions.

Be tough, tell little about yourself. Never mention money, or good standings.

The Philippines is not pandora's box: it's an open can of worm rotting in the sun.

Give them less, be silent, watch their little masquerade around you, their little games.

They by nature are con artists, deeply greedy liars, manipulators, and they can get extremely violent, too.

I managed quite well there, but got close to a lot of hurt on many occasions, including from supposed sweethearts, women.

Be very careful with them always. After all, a country with so much political instability, so many guerrilas for so long should tell you a lot about them as people.

Their wacked out so called elite relentlessly killing their own citizens in their fake drug war (estimated are 25.000 dead and counting) should show you how safe you are there.

Never ever trust a Filipino: your life depends on it.


Apr 30, 2018
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Sorry This Happened to You
by: Anonymous

So sorry you were taken in, and that it took you this long to wake up. Yes, they are sick liars, and most are void of conscience. It is a most parasitic culture. If you're divorced now, I highly suggest not to get involved with another Filipina.

I am a Filipina-American (ethnically mixed). I went to the Philippines to find out about my roots. The result: I was completely shocked and aghast.

Jan 20, 2018
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a road littered with broken relationships
by: Anonymous

Yes you are correct Filipinos are notorious for lying, cheating and stealing.

Pinays are very charming and very friendly towards whilst you have money but as soon as another better oportunity arrives they dump you.

As soon as you give them large cache of cash or house or land bye bye.

The biggest asset is their persona which is very charming but underneath that persona she's an iron girl. Cold and as hard as blue ice.

they move on to the next victim like a death star.

my ex Filipina has a new guy and he's building her a house.

6000 for the land and who knows how much for the house.

As soon as the house is finished ...

Dec 30, 2016
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don't give money to the irresponsible, freeloaders
by: Anonymous

i will never get involved with a filipina again. its all about money and they all feel entitled to it. they tolerate and even encourage exploitation of kanos and like to spend and give away money they didn't earn. most filipinas say they want to help them, they love their family and refuse to see they are sociopathic, irresponsible, lazy, liars, manipulators- out for themselves. im happy i got away but i see these traits in most of them.

Raised to exploit, opportunists, thieves and scammers, call it culture/tradition. Giving to them only enables, it doesnt help them.

Dec 30, 2016
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It is their culture
by: Anonymous

The culture is of deceit.

My son's Philippine wife's parents would not allow
them to marry unless they could be certain that the entire family could benefit.

My son committed suicide after the 2nd year of marriage.

They do not understand how to budget money or save. As soon as one member gets a paycheck the unemployed descend to get their share.

If you do not hand out your money you are shunned and called proud.

Married girls love their own family to the point of turning against their own husbands.

It is all part of the marriage scam. They can not understand the difference between truthfulness and deceit.

The number one import are Husbands. Their own men remain unmarried. It is all about the money, scamming foreign single men.

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