denial Filipino style
by mark
(canada)
I posted a story about a terrible experience meeting a lady in Butuan. Her family were lazy, freeloaders, intrusive, with absolutely no boundaries or manners etc you know the story.
Ready to use and exploit me or any foreigner/ofw. I was prey...What I witnessed and how they abuse kanos was incredible. it s like a business for them pimping their children or using their children to support them.
Of course they don't see it that way.
They are thieves and ready to destroy a persons life and relationship for greed. even ofws i met online describe their family this way and even call them narcissistic ineffectuals or possessing this cluster b disorder, and they do, believe me, these are the worst people i ever met.
I'm still trying to get over it and have this women still telling me she loves me and ready to leave her family behind and who are now telling her to find another kano who will give to the family. i wont give to such immoral people.
This post is for those who defend such immoral and destructive behavior. And post negative comments about us and for us speaking the truth.
We are simply looking for decent partners whom will treat us with dignity and respect. not deceive, cheat, and exploit us or allow it to happen.
You are obviously ignorant people in denial or you behave this way yourself or your family does.All I can say is you are the assholes. The enablers of the immoral.