Are Filipino women all like this

Been married for over 25 years to Filipino. She sends money home despite our kids enormous College debt that we co signed for.

She won't discuss a budget . Just walks away because it brings up subject of sending less. I saw my daughters Sociology paper where she was saying she never truly felt loved by her mother because her mother seemed to love her family much more over there.

My other daughter feels the same. In that letter my daughter mentioned she had a sister named Bella. I asked whats that about she said Bella contacted her and said mom was her mom. I was in shock. When I met my wife she was claiming no sexual experience. I asked my wife who was Bella. She broke into tears and walked out of the room knowing My wifes sister confirmed to my daughter that Bella was my wifes daughrter.

It was kept a secret. My wifes parents have other kids with decent jobs but no help from them because money all comes from here despite near bankruptcy.

Last time my wife went home 6 years ago she ran up in excess of $10,000 credit fixing parents house. I called her there and told her to stop. I could hear her family in the backround screaming "leave him". My wife and I are still married, I love her but dont trust her. I think she once had a one night stand. Ever since she came back 6 years ago we do have sex, go out etc but she never again said I love you. EG Our recent anniversary I woke her up saying I love you. She ignored it and did not reciprocate. We had sex but love was one sided

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Tread ye carefully
by: Anonymous

Most Filipinas grew up in poverty, Most marry for money and a better life. They prefer foreigners, white men no matter how old and how ugly due to their perceived wealth or pensions. Also moving to a foreign country for a better quality of life. Another reason is to breed beautiful children. You are expected to financially support her parents and/or other relatives.

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For whatever its worth
by: Windy

Generally speaking, all Filipinas behave in that manner. I am not at all surprised by your story. It is a rarity to find a Filipina who is not like that.

It is a severe attitudinal mess that they live with every miserable day of their life.

I will not relate examples that I had with several Filipinas before I married an exceptional one. Yes, behind their smiles and friendliness lurks a dark side that shows up when they have attained their comfort zone.

Consider this and perhaps you will understand how deep their depraved culture is. Why is it that the Philippines, after 118 years of Independence, 15 Presidents and being 90 percent Christians just cannot progress like their other neighboring South East Asian countries?


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Run
by: Anonymous

You probably bought her family a whole new house for that much money.

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You have to ask?
by: Wannakatana

You really have to ask? Her parents show such disrespect after being the recipient of $10k?? Drop her like a hot potato. Cut off all money. I would not have given her access to such a large amount of money in the first place.

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Not at all...
by: Anonymous

Mostly filipinas are simple ladies.There are some that is bad just the same way to anywhere u go of nationality. First thing is how they treated, treat them as your queen and she will doubled the goodness and she will treat u as her king.Be aware of choosing ur partners, u can see and feel if a woman just need ur money or just making stories and lies.The most important thing u know u r loved, it will have the foundation to live with u forever.Treat her nice and good things will be on ur relationship.If u love ur wife forgive her as we're human nobody is perfect.Communication is the best tool in a successful relationship.Have a heart to heart talk.In my part first thing i know my hubby is not rich but i do love him so much.He is not affectionate nor he is not good in sex.It was hard for me for my early months here, he dont give me money and i tried to get a job to support myself and helped him as well, this dont give me reason to leave coz the foundation of our love is so strong and one more thing im not materialistic.So whatever happens i will stay and love my husband.Im content and got my man of my dream. So not all filipinas are the same...

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Not all Filipino are like that.
by: Dave

I have been married to my wife over a quarter century now. She is a hard worker holds down 2 jobs , due to both of our hard work our house is paid off and bill all paid . She does send money back to help her retired mom and family,i have no problem with that, and we had her mom visit us here in the states. Her family treats me like one of their own, i like them better than my own family. My wife has never put her family above our relationship or family. We started with very little ,but are getting close to a good retirement.

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She is waiting you out
by: Anonymous

She has done her time,so she will feel entitled to every thing when you pass on or divorce. It is a sacrafice she has made for her family there. Along with the money she has sent home and home improviments in their home there she is doing it all for the family. She is just doing enough in your relationship to stay married. She knows what she is entitled to if she stays with you and will make the most of it.

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wife
by: David

If you stay married to her and die first , she will cash every thing out and return to the Philippines and live like a queen. She will leave your kids with nothing and use it all for her family over there. She will have a nice living over there on your social security . That may be why she is staying there with you now.

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no way
by: Anonymous

Time to cut your loses

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Once upon a time...
by: Anonymous

My experience is "NO, they are not all like that... many are much worse!".

A 20-something I communicated with (until 3 years ago) disclosed something to me about her friend who married a guy from Ohio. They were BOTH bar girls who would encourage men (at the bar they worked) to drink more, then "purchase" them for the evening. Her GF never disclosed this to her husband. She said the same thing... that she was a virgin.

A 2nd girl that I communicated with (and visited) while I was vacationing in Cebu said the same thing before I arrived. As it turned out, she'd also been lying about her virginity. Her GF set me straight on that... after which that GF was banned from talking to me for the rest of the trip.

Now, not all are so deceitful. Some actually are virgins, or at the very least, do NOT have secret children. The point here is that if I were to actually get involved w/a Philipina and whisk her to the US, I would make it VERY clear that when she marries me, she has a NEW FAMILY. If she wants to take care of those she leaves behind, she would need to get a job and could send NO MORE than 1/2 of the net pay back there.

Most guys that I have communicated with have said that the only successful marriage to a Phil woman would be to stay there in the Phils and get her as far from them as possible.

So deceitful: YES!

So, they treat you as a "currency printer": YES!

So most, but not all: YES.

Good luck. If anyone tells you any different than the above, it's a fairy tale.

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some are
by: Anonymous

its true that Filipino ladies are liars I m married to one but it took me a year to fined out some about her and yet not complete even she was saying her father passed away but it was not true I found out after 5 years that he is alive from her twin sis ...

Often Filipino girls go to other nationality to marry to make a good looking child so for that purpose they often lie to get to their goal.

I had a gf long ago who was married and I never know and I have boy from her and latter after 3 years of relation I fined out she was married in her country and as I know they don't have divorce they have annulment only, its quit a long story mate but this is what they are and yet god knows if my wife still lying to me or no but in terms of money they are not greedy they do not go for money to any man unless if they are really in need of it.

They are so kind clean and plus independents that's what I love in Filipino girls and what is wrong about them is that they easily believe a man if he is handsome even not rich most they go with arabs in uae not with locals cause they are afraid and locals wont marry any woman from other country but most to Lebanese Syrians and they will eventually destroy their life's and then they will dich them and they will go marry their own country girls but not all are same any way.

Be cool I know how u feel I have been in the life u having now and oh I forget to tell u despite that my x was married even she had a daughter from before but yet I accepted and I wanted to marry her but unfortunately in Philippine no divorce but if woman rich she can get new identity like passport and change her name and then get married again.

So now u have been with her from long time its now too late to ask all just continue leaving but a lie for us is like a knife to our heart or lets say more painful then that it took me 5 years but I know every thing about my wife now but yet I didnt decide to make kids and yet she is 7 years older than me I still love her care about her oh and she cares about me also so much that even when I was jobless for about 4 month she pay and give the house rent and yet that time I was not her husband .

They are loving people love them and u will get 10 times more. It is past, accept and move on I hope some other Filipino ladies will read this and learn to not lie to some one they met in life and always be true to ur man cause all mans are not like us to forgive some have more dark side and they will do bad things at end...

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